#7 - Give the time out after the spanking, not in place of it. It
gives them time to calm down and let it sink in. So, take a deep breath before
you spank and be calm. My Crew receives a spanking WAY better if they knew the
rule, were told that they broke it by a calm Mommy and then receive a calm
spanking. It makes sense; self control breeds more self control (eventually).
