Long ago, when I worked outside the home, I casually mentioned that I'd take my health insurance information home for my husband to read, since he handled that stuff. A co-worker retorted, "Whatever happened to being a strong, independent young woman?!" Ironically, I am the happily married one of the two of us and she is divorced (for no good reason) and living with a boyfriend with 2 confused kids. If that is being a strong, independent young woman, count me out.
(And today I am very happily married for 10 years to my best friend!)